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Ubuntu!

I am because you are’

I know you remember

Yet, you choose to forget

You think you are right

Yet, you could not be more wrong

I know you believe yours is the only way

There is no wisdom in claiming a monopoly of knowledge

Even if you do not remember

Even if you choose to forget

Even if you hold on to your righteousness

There are enough of us who remember

Ubuntu!

The years of struggles that were not our own, but we claimed them as ours

The times when we opened up our borders, homes, schools and training camps

The days when we provided succour in whatever form it was needed – to fleeing freedom fighters, self-exiled activists, orphans, comrades with bounties on their heads and many more

We raised money – from students, civil servants and anyone who wanted to give

It should be on record that everyone gave what they could

Money

Housing

Passports

Jobs

Scholarships

Oil

Military training

Weapons

Advocacy for economic sanctions

Freedom concerts

Zimbabwe, Mozambique, Namibia, Tanzania, Libya

Nigeria, Ghana, Botswana, Lesotho, Egypt, Ethiopia, Algeria, Guinea and many more

This does not include what wealthier nations did

Even when those nations dragged their feet

Citizens and institutions mobilised

African countries gave whatever they could

Even those who were themselves struggling for their own freedom

They all understood that none of us is free

If one of us is still enslaved

We all speak different languages

Yet, we all understand what Ubuntu means

Ubuntu!

‘I am because you are’

I am incomplete without you

You are incomplete without me

I cannot be a human being while your own humanity is in question

We rise together

We fall together

We struggle together

We succeed together

That is the spirit many of us grew up with

A generation that tied its humanity to that of strangers

Thousands of miles away

Today, we watch in horror

As the descendants of a long history of struggle and resistance

Descend on the descendants of those who supported struggle and resistance

Africans are hounded at their places of work

Driven out of hospitals

Stopped on the streets

Their children chased out of school

And now there are attempts to invade their residences

Go back home’

‘Fix your country’

‘You cause the crimes here’

‘You take our jobs’

‘You marry our women for papers’

As all this is happening

The government folds their arms and says nothing of consequence

This seems like encouragement to the mob

So, the attacks continue

Migration is a challenge all around the world

Dehumanising entire communities and their children is not the solution

Spreading hate, propaganda, lies and venom is not the answer

Xenophobia is not a fancy word – it is real

Meanwhile, those who own up to 70% of the agricultural land in the country have no crowds baying at their gates

Those who own most of the diamond mines do not have mobs obstructing their operations

Those who own huge companies and the profits that go with them have not had their businesses attacked

No

It is the barber salon of Joseph from Zimbabwe

The restaurant of Stella from Zambia

The night club of Peter from Nigeria

The hair braiding shed of Marie from Congo

You know better

You should do better

Know your friends

Don’t make them your enemies

Know your enemies

Don’t mistake them for friends

You certainly need justice

Land

Jobs

Dignity

As was promised back in 1994

Many years have gone by and the promises have not been fulfilled

Hold those responsible accountable

Not those who are fighting for their own survival too

Some people somewhere

Will benefit from the implosion of a great country such as yours

They are probably prepared to sponsor these misguided moves

Stop looking in the wrong direction

Know your friends

Know your enemies

Ubuntu!

I am because you are

You are here now

Because I was there then

Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi is a Gender Specialist, Leadership Coach, Policy Advocate and Writer. She is the Founder of Abovewhispers.com, an online community for women. She can be reached at BAF@abovewhispers.com

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