Rant Of The Day – How Much?

By Grace Shaibu

Happy new folks.

I know some noble men even if they are few but we still have them and that’s a good relief. Because, I am seriously tired of these ‘chaff men’ roaming about, disturbing lives everywhere they go.


Men who do you a little favour and automatically think you owe them much, men who are whistle blowers. Very immature you will say. I have listened to quite a number of ladies rant about how myopic some men are especially in the aspect of giving, let me note that, for as long as you weren’t forced to give either your time, money, gifts etc… please keep your mouth and senses in one piece stop being brash!

I believe that you gave because you wanted some attention, which is quite reasonable but it isn’t reasonable to think that every attention should be given to you just because of that, most especially young men who are trying to woo young ladies for a relationship. Most of them are culprits.

So, because of a little gift you think the whole world should be centered around you? Nope! And, moreover, giving of gifts is normal and that doesn’t chnage the mindset of the woman towards you. So, kindly stop whining!

Whatever you do, do out of genuine love, when that love is genuine…everything works in place. If you think you are worth the attention because of what you give, what if? Yours is the lowest on the cadre?

Think! The Genuity of Love is more than Attention Seeeking Gifts.

Source: abovewhispers

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9 Responses to Rant Of The Day – How Much?

  1. Femi Diipo February 28, 2017 at 9:55 am

    Yeah right, but girls young girls should be mindful of receiving gifts too. Why collect an attention seeking gift when you are not willing ti give the attention, why lead a man on when you know he’s really not in your plans. And naturally, when people give they mostly expect something in return

  2. latoya February 28, 2017 at 2:05 pm

    Love must be genuine. I believe this and i wish men would learn and stop ranting, no man can rant for me though.

  3. feranmi daniels February 28, 2017 at 2:07 pm

    Ehn! ladies will start feeling fly now o. If only they can also be told that, they weren’t forced to accept the gifts either.

  4. Lalekan February 28, 2017 at 2:09 pm

    Ha! So using my money for investment is now a crime? Okay o. Man and woman relationship is an investment, it’s business.

  5. Olufunmilola February 28, 2017 at 5:05 pm

    This is so much on point. I am happy to see this, they won’t let us hear word because of ‘biscuits’

  6. Princess February 28, 2017 at 9:40 pm

    You just spoke my mind young lady. Give because you cherish and appreciate the person, don’t give because you want something in return.

  7. Ebonychyqui2 February 28, 2017 at 9:57 pm

    Its high time some guys stop being diffident and face reality. Some can’t even accost a lady and speak their minds, they will rather tell their friends to bring the lady to them, buy some cheap things for her and expect to have her back on ground. They call it give and take and who says it mist be so?

  8. Julie February 28, 2017 at 10:02 pm

    For those chap that spends on a lady and expects something in return. I call you broke ass with no destination, its high time you woke up and smell the coffee.

  9. DSEED February 28, 2017 at 11:18 pm

    Not there fault. The fault is from ours girls/ladies that easily carried away just by mere gift. And guy, because you meet one doesn’t mean all are the same.


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