Rant Of The Day – How Much?
By Grace Shaibu
Happy new folks.
I know some noble men even if they are few but we still have them and that’s a good relief. Because, I am seriously tired of these ‘chaff men’ roaming about, disturbing lives everywhere they go.
Men who do you a little favour and automatically think you owe them much, men who are whistle blowers. Very immature you will say. I have listened to quite a number of ladies rant about how myopic some men are especially in the aspect of giving, let me note that, for as long as you weren’t forced to give either your time, money, gifts etc… please keep your mouth and senses in one piece stop being brash!
I believe that you gave because you wanted some attention, which is quite reasonable but it isn’t reasonable to think that every attention should be given to you just because of that, most especially young men who are trying to woo young ladies for a relationship. Most of them are culprits.
So, because of a little gift you think the whole world should be centered around you? Nope! And, moreover, giving of gifts is normal and that doesn’t chnage the mindset of the woman towards you. So, kindly stop whining!
Whatever you do, do out of genuine love, when that love is genuine…everything works in place. If you think you are worth the attention because of what you give, what if? Yours is the lowest on the cadre?