Happy new week folks.
Today’s rant hits everyone but more on the men though. This has happened to ladies a lot whether you are fully packed for the flow or not, somethings just happen without consent.
Trust me, sometimes the devil just tends to but a little blue on your white or let me say a little red.
When that particular time of the month approaches and then, you are all figured out for a trip somewhere, I mean, you have totally ”packaged” yourself like someone going to war then, something goes wrong most times because you never expected it, you won’t even feel that something is wrong. Only for you to be tapped by someone, somehow giving that word …”sister, you are stained”. Oh! That shock, that anger that one feels is just so unexplainable.
The first question that comes to mind is, How come? the second, How do I do this now? The third, but what happened? Well, it has happened move forward but the rant is more about some guys that just talk seemingly without words guard {caution}and expression control.
Some Time ago, I just alighted off the bus and I was walking to a place to get something, then I noticed this young man follwing me. Hey! I looked back because one must be very alert in the city.
Then, he came close and said ”sister, you are stained”. I hated that statement because I didnt even expect it at all, I told him thanks and only for him to keep following me, I looked back and he repeated the same thing and I said, OKAY! Thanks, right? I mean, It was bad enough that a man came to tell and I’m still trying to figure that out and move towards a way out, he now happened to be a man without a control guard. I am sure he heard the first thanks. How embarrassing.
I think it would have been better for a female to point that out than for a man because really, for you to notice that,it means you were just staring at the ass! Sometimes, somethings just be kept and the right person{s}would do the job.
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That’s very true, its not right for a man to tell a lady about her mess. It should rather be left for ladies alone to do that.
Some men can see and say anything sha? I jst think men should learn to overlook those things or better still tell a lady who can tell the bloody victim #tongue out# about her stain, instead of acting like a pervert who has being staring at the lady’s backside for decades.
Well I have never being stained before. And I pray never to be, because i can’t stand the embarrassment from some people. And you know what? Some people are very bad at disseminating info. Especially those wide mouth shameless buddies that wish to just wag their tongues. They will go like “sister you are stained” followed by an hysteric and exasperating laughter that can make one kill.
What is a man looking for in a lady’s butt to the extent of seeing that she’s stained? Imagine if he touches her ass and softly whispers young lady you are stained. I bet you an imported slap would follow. Are there ladies here that supports that?
That stuff is just a public disgrace joor. You just discovered that your moral go so low.
I don’t think it is outrightly wrong if a guy should actually point that out to a lady. And come to think of it, how do you want the guy to approach the situation without going straight to the point. Some ladies give very bad reception you know. Just saying.