Happy New Month From me to all our wonderful readers. This new month, I want to charge you to own yourself, do your thing!

I have noticed that as women, we tend to undermine what we have whether in physical asset or property assets. We tend to do some ‘humility’ stunt covering what we have to be in favour of the public. ”Oh, I don’t want them to say I am loud, I don’t want them to say I am too Proud, I don’t want them to think that I am the only one in the room” and there, we begin to downplay what we have. We begin to sink in our worth just for acceptance and this is wrong. You are who you are and you should own it. Don’t apologise for it. You’ve got big boobs, Own it. Don’t go about complaining, nagging all day long that people keep talking about your boobs, of course, they should talk because they can see and whether you like it or not, people will always talk about it. Don’t allow anyone body shame you for it. Wear your dress, wear your top and match on majestically like the super woman that you are.

I know we were taught to be very careful with ourselves, nobody is saying you shouldn’t be, you can be careful but don’t lock yourself up. You’ve got very tiny hips, tiny boobs, small butt and you are under pressure for no reasons, under pressure to impress, to look acceptable,to look a certain way for people to connect with you. No! you shouldn’t feel that way. You shouldn’t allow anyone make you feel less of yourself. Own your body. Own your sexuality. Don’t allow anyone sell the ‘look’ to you. You are your own look, you are your own person and you should appreciate every moment. Appreciate your curves, appreciate the lines because they make you who you are. You’ve got an acne battered face, own it. Don’t be depressed, just work on getting it out but don’t allow anyone make you feel less beautiful. You are beautiful. You are all you are and more and don’t apologise for it.

Dearest Babe, Babe for life! Babe always and forever.  Your flower isn’t dying, it is glowing. They say women have the time they bloom and when the bloom dies, don’t work with that line, your bloom is your bloom. Blossom… Grow… Soar… Shine always as ever. Whether you are 40,50 or more, shine your shine. Wrinkles will come, no cream remover can remove it, it’s a natural blessing and as a woman  don’t be embarrassed. Don’t allow them call you old and faded. Take every moment in, Live every moment and enjoy your spark. Sparkle, Grow, Live, Blossom… Enjoy who you are. Enjoy the Woman you have become and the Woman you are becoming. Own your Sexuality!