Hello Readers, 

Welcome to the rant column. 

What kind of care do you give? Let me humbly ask you that question. Is your care borne out of knowing, or truly caring about a person. You might be wondering why I am asking, let me tell you. I hate it, I really hate it when people get on the road, bus or anywhere and go to meet a lady that she is stained. You know what that means yeah? When a lady is on her menstrual cycle and some accident happen then she becomes stained. It could be a stain on her dress or skirt/trouser and some information buzzers go to tell the girl that she is stained and walks away. I hate it.

Thank you for giving the information but don’t say it to stress her please! When you say such, say it out of care, real care. A lot of women would be able to relate to this. The way some people will even say it sef, you feel so irritated with yourself and the most annoying one is when a man comes to give that information. Jeez! So annoying and uncalled for. Why don’t you allow a woman pass it across,  because it makes the person involved perfectly comfortable than carrying your big mouth to disclose whatever you have seen without caution.

For women, when you go to break such news, or give such an information, care some more. You can ask the lady what she wants to do and how she wants to get it cleaned. Let her see the sincerity in your heart it makes her very comfortable and not vexed with herself.

Being on one’s period is a lot of work already. If you don’t know how to  be usefully caring, let her carry the stain till she gets home and cleans up, It is not a Crime!