A woman isn’t complicated neither is she difficult to understand. She just wants simple things done in a very simple and honest way. For instance, when you get her angry she wants you to apologise, admit that you are very wrong. She doesn’t need all the unnecessary drama, ego flaunting your ‘manliness’ at her. Just say ‘Sorry’.
One very important thing that some men fail to recognise is that women are the Balance that men need in Character. A woman compels you to be a Gentleman if you are not one. If you refuse to admit your wrong she will sit with you till the letter and you would bear the brunt of being too proud to say Sorry. She just wants you to admit and move on. This doesn’t mean that her life depends on This Sorry, it just means that she wants you to be a better man before you show up this trait to a colleague, or another woman.
Sorry is not a Show. Some men think when you dramatise your ‘Apology’ She will be carried away. No! She sees sincerity in all you do. A woman knows when something is genuine. Most of the time she doesn’t need you to put up a show all she needs is a man who will honestly tell her ‘sooryyy’ and wouldn’t do such again. So, telling a woman sorry is more than just saying it.
Telling her sorry means acting it.
Women can decipher tones and words more than men and so when you apologise and she refuses, she is not being stubborn like some men might say, she just has not seen the depth of sincerity embedded in your words. You have to be sincere in words, actions and tones. This is not difficult, we do it always. When something is coming from the Heart the output is always very different and when it is not, the output speaks it better than the words.
For instance, You didn’t make it in time for a lunch date and you didn’t let her know prior to that time? How do you expect the date to go well without sincerely admitting your wrong? The first thing to say when you see is to tell her Sorry. Keep the details of what happened and just say Sorry to her. Peradventure she requested for what happened then you can go on with your explanation.
Women are not difficult they only want sincerity. So, the point is if you wouldn’t be sincere with that apology, do not say it at all. If the apology is a blank cheque for another wrong do not attempt saying sorry because Sorry to a woman means, I won’t do it again.
Before you say Sorry
Check your intention
Make sure you are Really Sorry
Make efforts not to repeat that same mistake.
Let your expression depict that you are sorry
Be really, very sorry.