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LOUD WHISPERS: In Dire Need of Scapegoats

LOUD WHISPERS: In Dire Need of Scapegoats

In November 2018, I wrote an article about the death of Ochanya Ogbanje after many years of abuse at the hands of her Uncle, his son, and her Aunt who acted as an enabler. Due to the huge outcry when it happened, I had hoped that Ochanya would get justice and her death would not […]

LOUD WHISPERS: Living Dangerously

LOUD WHISPERS: Living Dangerously

In the year 2020, during the COVID19 lockdowns, I got a call from an NGO working with young people in Nigeria. Someone had contacted them to draw attention to the plight of a female student in a tertiary institution who was being blackmailed by one of her classmates. She had been manipulated into sending nude […]

LOUD WHISPERS: Anger In Four Parts

LOUD WHISPERS: Anger In Four Parts

I am angry. On a scale of one to ten, my anger is a twenty. I am furious, irate, enraged, any word you can think of that gets the message across. I have often written and spoken about Anger as being a necessary ingredient for motivation. My use of the word Anger in this context […]

LOUD WHISPERS: The Timelessness Of Scandal

LOUD WHISPERS: The Timelessness Of Scandal

I just came across a video and story of how a man somewhere in Ghana was making advances on a sixteen-year-old school girl on a public bus. The girl was trying to avoid him but he was persistent. There were two older women on the bus listening. When they had heard enough, they asked the […]

LOUD WHISPERS: Mama Tayo’s Journey

LOUD WHISPERS: Mama Tayo’s Journey

Many years ago, I had a conversation with a school mate, let me call her Tayo, who told me that she was one of six children her mother had with five husbands. I was shocked to hear this. We are brought up to believe that this is normal for men, who are entitled to a […]

LOUD WHISPERS: Madele

LOUD WHISPERS: Madele

Madele had never been lazy. She was well known for her industry and commitment to everything she laid her hands on. Her parents were poor, and they barely managed to support her education up to her O’ Level. She did not do well in her high school leaving examination and so could not get admission for […]

LOUD WHISPERS: My Prophecies For 2021

LOUD WHISPERS: My Prophecies For 2021

Happy New Year! It is that time of the year when I reveal my prophecies. For those of you who do not know, I am a well-respected Prophetess, with a track record for accurate prophecies. My inbox has been bombarded with people wanting me to tell them what I think will happen this year. This […]

LOUD WHISPERS: Orange The World 2020

LOUD WHISPERS: Orange The World 2020

I would like to welcome you all to this year’s Gender Based Violence Summit, convened for us to assess where we are as a State in our response to the menace of Gender Based Violence. This summit is part of our activities to mark the annual Global Campaign Against Gender Based Violence, November 25-December 10th. […]

When and what time is best to get married?

This article was inspired by this question as asked by one of my young friends on his Facebook page and I was fired up to write about the time I think a man should get married tapping into my anecdotal research findings on the topic. Here are the indicators for when a man is ripe […]

LOUD WHISPERS: Speak Up! Speak Out!

LOUD WHISPERS: Speak Up! Speak Out!

All they want is to be heard All they want is for us to listen All they want is to show us their visible and invisible scars All they want is to drive nice cars if they can afford them Wear nice clothes if they can buy them Carry a laptop if they have one […]

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