LOUD WHISPERS: The Great ‘Stiwanist’

Professor Omolara Ogundipe-Leslie (1940-2019)

For the past couple of days, there have been heated arguments for and against the actions of a certain young man on a domestic flight in Nigeria. The young man in question found out that his assigned window seat in business class was occupied by the almost mythical Professor Wole Soyinka. At the young man’s insistence, Professor Soyinka got up and sat on his originally assigned seat. There have been furious reactions from the public, particularly on social media, mostly in condemnation of the lack of respect of the young traveler, but a few also railing against the ‘entitlement culture’ of the older generation. I was appalled at the actions of the young man. I could not imagine the universe in which I would ask an elder to vacate a seat for me, something I have volunteered to do many times over the years for older people or VIPs. Under such circumstances, I would check with an airline attendant to seek their permission.

As I was gathering my thoughts for this piece about one of the greatest African feminist thinkers, scholars and activists of her generation, I wondered what it would be like to board an aircraft and see Professor Molara Ogundipe-Leslie in my designated seat. I would have smiled, given her a hug and said, ‘Prof, good morning ma, nice to see you’. It would never have crossed my mind to tell her she was sitting in my seat. Even if I had mentioned it to her jokingly, Prof would have smiled and carried on chatting. She would never have given up the seat. Auntie Molara as I often called her, when I was not addressing her as Prof, was a Grand Diva, and goodness, she had earned the right to be one!

On June 18th 2019, Nigeria, Africa and the world lost another great mind and soul. Professor Molara Ogundipe-Leslie was a brilliant theorist, academic, cultural critic, teacher, policy advocate, administrator and feminist activist. It is gratifying to note that she was not cut down in her prime, she lived an amazing life, and left children and grandchildren behind, but it hurts all the same. I lost a wonderful older friend, mentor, teacher, role model, and kindred spirit. Prof Molara had a way of forming the most unlikely of relationships with people far removed from her own generational or social circle. We became friends when we both overlapped in the UK in the early 1990s. I was a young woman in her twenties who was trying to learn as much as she could about feminism and gender issues. I had just completed a Masters Degree in Gender and Society at Middlesex University, and I was also working at AMwA, an international development organisation for African women. I found myself talking to Auntie Molara who was a Distinguished Leverhulme Professor at University of Leeds at the time, and she was in London occasionally. I remember telling her that throughout my time at Middlesex, there was only one black British woman who taught us, the others were white and so were most of the recommended texts. Auntie Molara said to me, ‘That is not a surprise at all. It is not easy for white feminists to come to terms with the existence of black African feminists’. I had other senior African feminist friends in London at the time such as the amazing Professor Ifi Amadiume (who later moved to the US), Jerusha Arothe-Vaughn (Kenya), Lauretta Ngcobo (South Africa), Ayesha Imam (Nigeria) and the late Wanjiru Kihoro (Kenya). In my many discussions with Prof Amadiume, she would reinforce the observations of Professor Molara, and the relationship I had with these women during our London years helped shape my thinking and activism as I embarked on my own journey.

I crossed paths with Prof Molara again during my years in Accra, Ghana. I went to a nail salon near my home and Prof. walked in. She was a Professor of English and Africana Studies, Ashesi University at the time. After having our nails done, she went home with me and had dinner and we ended up spending almost six hours together. That is how our relationship worked. Years of distance, and then a connection, and we would pick up right from where we left off. For the next three years we spent time together before she left Ghana for another position in the US, then she finally returned home to Nigeria.

One of the greatest contributions to African feminist theory and practice has been Prof Molara’s excellent book, ‘Re-Creating Ourselves: African Women and Critical Transformations’ published in 1994. The book is a collection of her theoretical essays, lectures and speeches over a span of more than twenty years. This publication is where she introduced the concept of STIWASocial Transformation of Women in Africa. According to Prof Molara, African women’s experiences, contexts and needs have to be at the center of any development thinking or practice. Africa cannot be transformed without addressing the full involvement of women in all economic, political and social structures, transformed from being sites of oppression to spaces which guarantee freedom, access and opportunity for both men and women. In an interview with the South African scholar, Desiree Lewis, Prof Molara explained her thinking:

I felt that as concerned African women we needed to focus on our areas of concern, socially and geographically. I am concerned with critical and social transformations of a positive nature in Africa……when I introduced the word, I was trying to take our discourses away from arguments about being or not being Westernised and imitative. My analysis of gender problems is systemic, we need to transform the continent structurally within States and within families and this historical activity should happen with the collaboration of both men and women. Some critics felt that the term was not strong enough. But I am not about adversorial relations with men or about men hating. We give birth to men, we raise them too (sometimes and unfortunately to oppress other women) we marry them and are related by blood to them, so it would be pointless or sick to hate them. I am saying that we are indissolubly linked with men; therefore, we have to work out ways of co-existing harmoniously, if not joyously, with them’.

Professor Molara declared herself a Stiwanist as a perspective on Feminism not necessarily as an alternative. Like many feminists from the global South, she believed in feminisms – multiple and diverse expressions of feminism. As an African scholar who taught in many international academic institutions, it was important to have this unique analysis on how feminists in an African context approached theory from their own lived experiences. As a young African feminist reading about Stiwanism for the first time, as well as literature written by other African feminists, I was able to find a way of reconciling my sympathies with the commonalities of a global feminist sisterhood with the need to locate this within the multi-layered oppressions of women (and some men) in my community, while also attempting to utilize the opportunities that also exist. This ultimately turned out to be my life’s work, and I owe this to the guidance provided in the teachings of scholars such as Prof Molara.

If only I could find myself seated on a plane next to Prof Molara. She would have asked me how I was getting on in my current role. I would have given her updates, and asked her a question of my own, ‘How did you manage to cope with feminist backlash all those years ago’? Prof would have smiled and responded with a proverb she used in her famous book, Re-creating African Women, ‘Ojo tin pa gunugun bo ojo ti pe’ (The vulture has suffered beatings from the rain for many years). It is a Yoruba proverb about experience, resilience, courage, trials and determination. It is about life-long learning, failure, hope and survival. It is the story of all mortals who walk the earth from generation to generation. Prof Molara has taken a rest from the beating of the rain and the harsh glare of the sun. Her legacy of academic excellence and service to humanity remains. Auntie Molara, I would have taken your bags down after the flight and carried them with mine, I would have waited for you to pick up your checked luggage and made sure you had a safe ride to your destination. I would have resisted your offer to follow you home because that would have meant spending at least three hours I had not planned for, though now I wish I could. Goodbye ma. I will never forget all what you taught us. I pray that the ones coming after us will have the desire to learn too.

 

Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi is a Gender Specialist, Social Entrepreneur and Writer. She is the Founder of Abovewhispers.com, an online community for women. She can be reached at BAF@abovewhispers.com

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13 Responses to LOUD WHISPERS: The Great ‘Stiwanist’

  1. Lola Adeola June 27, 2019 at 1:20 pm

    In as much as I would like to defend the young man here, I will let it pass. May God rest the soul of Prof Omolara Ogundipe. I read some of her works and I would gladly say her legacy cannot be erased.

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  2. Veronica Imaseun June 27, 2019 at 1:46 pm

    God help this generation of ours though. May God rest the soul of this great woman, I met her one time when I was at the University of Ibadan and she exuded so much grace and authority. God bless her soul.

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  3. Olatide Omojola June 27, 2019 at 1:50 pm

    Even though I see the point here cos Loud Whispers will always give us insight but I think this case of this youngman is unnecessary. I think we are judging the youngman, we are not allowing him say his own part of the story and Wole Soyinka sef is not talking about it because according to him, it wasn’t necessary. I understand the point though but I see it from this perspective. Our generation is a vocal one but most of us still understand what respect is. May God bless Prof Omolara Ogundipe-Lesile. You taught us to be brave.

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  4. Femi Diipo June 28, 2019 at 1:51 am

    Many cultural values were embedded in my personality while growing up in Ekiti and despite how much I may have grown and lost most of these values, I still cannot great an elder without bowing, talk less of telling an older man to vacate a seat for me regardless of the circumstances. I love how Erelu presented this case, telling us her cultural orientation towards respecting an older and accomplished woman without judging another who may not share or display similar orientation.

    The world has lost another icon and may her soul rest in peace.

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  5. Olakunle Olajide June 28, 2019 at 10:12 am

    Rest on Prof. Omolara Ogundipe..Your efforts on earth will never be forgotten.
    Concerning the flight issue, I don’t even know if the young man has a specific reason but is it wrong for a young man to tell an older person that he sat on his seat? If it were to be the other way round, would there be any kerfuffle?
    Yes Prof. Wole Soyinka is a renowned person, a Nobel laureate but that doesn’t mean he can’t be told that he is on a wrong seat. Manner of approach might differ but there is no rule that says you should inconvenient yourself for anyone. That is the reason we are humans and we all differ with different orientation. I might have let it pass but we shouldn’t blame the young man for requesting for his seat.
    Thank you for you insights as always.

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  6. Eniola Omotunde June 28, 2019 at 4:07 pm

    May the peace of God be with the families of this great Woman and May HER SOUL REST IN PEACE. Concerning this case, this is the perfect way to lay it down. The most perfect way. I don’t think he approached prof well cos if he did the man who told the story wouldn’t see the need to.

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  7. Bisi Alawode June 28, 2019 at 4:09 pm

    This angle is a different angle and I respect it. Elders are still going to be elders no matter what. Thank you ma. May God bless the soul of Prof.

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  8. Lanre Davids June 28, 2019 at 4:15 pm

    I read some of her literary works and they affected my life positively. May God bless her good soul. This plane thing, I would sincerely say I don’t understand what the whole talk is about. I don’t think it is what the debate at all. I know that we are preaching values but then, I feel it wasn’t necessary for Tonye to write about it.

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  9. Victor Udoh June 28, 2019 at 4:20 pm

    Our generation think being vocal is misplacing courtesy,we need to learn more and some people said perhaps he doesn’t know Wole Soyinka which to me doesn’t matter. Knowing or not knowing isn’t the point here, here is an elder and should be respected. RIP Prof Molara Lesile

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  10. Theresa Daniels June 28, 2019 at 4:24 pm

    Let me just wish Auntie Molara RIP and pass, I can see that the comment section is hot on a debate.

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  11. DSEED June 28, 2019 at 6:46 pm

    Only God knows what this present generation is turning into. So many things are missing. May Grandma Prof Molara soul rest in perfect peace.

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  12. Eric Onuoha June 30, 2019 at 1:46 am

    RIP Professor Molara Ogundipe. You made a huge impact on your generation. I salute you

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  13. Dom Dom July 1, 2019 at 11:48 am

    May the soul of Prof. Molara Ogundipe rest in peace. I believe due respect should always be given to those who deserve it.

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