8 Ways To Train Your Brain To Become More Positive

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It’s been said that humans on average, can have anywhere from 12,000 to 60,000 thoughts per day — if not more. Pretty fascinating, right?

Here’s the issue. Some speculate that an astounding 80 percent of our thoughts are negative and you train your brain to have more negative thoughts over positive thoughts.

That’s not so fascinating.

According to Loretta Breuning, Ph.D., Founder of the Inner Mammal Institute, Professor of Management at California State University, East Bay, and author of The Science of Positivity and Habits of a Happy Brain, this really isn’t all that shocking;

“Our brain is not designed to create happiness, as much as we wish it were so. Our brain evolved to promote survival. It saves the happy chemicals (dopamine, serotonin and oxytocin) for opportunities to meet a survival need, and only releases them in short spurts which are quickly metabolized. This motivates us to keep taking steps that stimulate our happy chemicals.”

Even worse? “You can end up with a lot of unhappy chemicals in your quest to stimulate the happy ones, especially near the end of a stressful workday,” adds Dr. Breuning.

When our brains go negative that can eat away at our productivity, creativity, and decision-making skills. That’s because negative thoughts tend to have a bigger impact than positive thoughts. Again, this goes back evolution. Survival depended on being able to detect and avoid dangerous situations.

As Dr. Breuning explains, “The bad feeling of cortisol has its own survival purpose. It alerts you to an obstacle on the path to meeting your needs so you can navigate your way to good feelings. But once you do that, your brain finds the next obstacle. You will feel bad a lot if you follow your survival brain wherever it leads.”

The good news is that you can actually train your brain to become more positive through these 8 techniques.

1. Observe your thoughts

The first place to start is by observing your thoughts — even if it’s just for 10 minutes. Since we’re creature of habits, you may notice that you have the same negative thoughts creeping up in your mind. Are you anxious about an upcoming trip? Are stressed out work? Are you upset about that fight you had with your spouse?

Once you know what negative thoughts are bothering you the most, you can start working on a solution to resolve the problem. For example, if you’re really bothered by a co-worker, then approach your boss with the problem and ask if you can be moved to another part of the office where you don’t have to interact with them as much.

For example, if you’re really bothered by a co-worker, then approach your boss with the problem and ask if you can be moved to another part of the office where you don’t have to interact with them as much.

2. Scan for the 3 daily positives

Before you go to sleep you can easily train your brain. Reflect on your day and think about three specific good things that happened to you that day. Whether if it was someone buying you a cup of coffee, an amazingly beautiful sunset, or landing a new client. Even the smallest things, like being paid a compliment, having lunch with an old friend, or watching your dog roll around, are more than enough to make you happy.

Even the smallest things, like being paid a compliment, having lunch with an old friend, or watching your dog roll around, are more than enough to make you happy.

3. Give someone a shoutout.

Gratitude is really important. Research has found that showing gratitude can do anything from making you more optimistic to warding of coronary artery disease. A gratitude journal is a good place to start, but I’ve found that sharing your gratitude is far more beneficial.

A gratitude journal is a good place to start, but I’ve found that sharing your gratitude is far more beneficial.

It could be anything from thanking an employee or colleague for all of their hard work, a quick catching up email with a friend, complementing your barista, or having a nightly discussion like “What was the best part of your day today?” with your spouse.

It may seem a little awkward at first, but trust me, you’ll feel excellent when you give someone a shoutout.

4. Help others.

Whether if it’s helping a swamped colleague on a project, helping someone invoice someone else, helping someone at work with a task, holding open a door, buying a stranger a cup of coffee, donating money, or volunteering, any types of acts of kindness can boost happiness.

5. Surround yourself with positive people.

Since emotions are contagious, it only makes sense that you would want to surround yourself with positive people who inspire, empower, and motivate you and not all those Debbie Downers and Negative Nancy’s.

6. Look after your body and mind.

Research has found time and time again that taking care of ourselves physically and mentally can influence our happiness and train your brain over time to be more positive.

For example, eating healthy, particularly bananas, eggs, blueberries, and salmon, can boost your spirits.

Exercising for just 20 minutes a day is the best way to release endorphins, which in turn will improve your mood. And, finally, start practicing mindfulness through yoga and meditation.

And, finally, start practicing mindfulness through yoga and meditation. Mindfulness is simply being aware of your thoughts and feelings without judging them as good or bad. An easy mindfulness exercise is to merely set your phone alarm for three separate times during the day. When it buzzes — stop — one second, and take a breath. helps bring more balance and positivity into your life.

An easy, easy, easy, mindfulness exercise is to merely set your phone alarm for three separate times during the day. When it buzzes — stop — one second, and take a breath. Even this small break will train your brain to be more balanced.

7. Subconscious re-training and inner healing.

Sometimes in order to become more positive, we have to uncover and then release the past negative experiences that we’ve been holding onto. Exercises like tapping, daily affirmations, neuro-linguistic programming, and mirror work can help you discover and heal these wounds. Additionally, these exercises can help you build a more supportive and affirming belief system that you can use the next time you face any traumatic experiences.

Additionally, these exercises can help you build a more supportive and affirming belief system that you can use the next time you face any traumatic experiences.

8. Make time to do something that you love.

This may be easier said than done, but if one of the best ways to become more positive is by making specific time for something that you absolutely love.

The action doesn’t matter. Just make sure you love it. It may be reading, cooking, playing a sport, going to the movies, planning a camping trip with friends, or picking up a new hobby. Try to set aside an hour a day by setting boundaries that will free up a little time to something that gives you genuine happiness.

For me, I’m an avid reader. To make sure that I have the time to read every day, I wake up before everyone in my home so that I have the time to actually read. Since no one else is up, there aren’t any distractions that are preventing from reading

Since no one else is up, there aren’t any distractions that are preventing from reading. My boundary setting to help me be able to free up this time is that I don’t pick up the computer until I have enjoyed a little reading.

Source: https://medium.com/due

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